{"id":547,"date":"2026-02-16T15:39:25","date_gmt":"2026-02-16T08:39:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lic.dps.media\/?p=547"},"modified":"2026-02-16T15:39:26","modified_gmt":"2026-02-16T08:39:26","slug":"khi-toi-chua-duoc-vet-thuong-long-chong-cu-lai-mong-han-gan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lic.dps.media\/en\/khi-toi-chua-duoc-vet-thuong-long-chong-cu-lai-mong-han-gan\/","title":{"rendered":"When I healed my emotional wounds, my ex-husband wanted to reconcile"},"content":{"rendered":"

T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn quay l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169 nh\u01b0ng trong l\u00f2ng v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn anh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00f4m nay, khi vi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng d\u00f2ng n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u1ea1 th\u01b0\u1eddng. T\u00f4i 43 tu\u1ed5i, c\u00f3 hai con ngoan ngo\u00e3n, xinh x\u1eafn. T\u00f4i t\u1eebng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi c\u01b0\u1edbi, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i y\u00eau nhau nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y c\u00f2n ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f3. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111i l\u00e0m, ch\u1eaft chiu t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u1ecf. Nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 qu\u00e3ng th\u1eddi gian h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i. C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i, thu nh\u1eadp \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 mua nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 mua xe, th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nhi\u1ec1u \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1. Hai con l\u1ea7n l\u01b0\u1ee3t ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n. T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n ch\u0103m lo cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh chu \u0111\u00e1o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u khi ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i chuy\u1ec3n sang kinh doanh b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u1ea3n b\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n t\u00edch g\u00f3p c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u1edbi khi\u1ebfn anh th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ti\u1ebfp kh\u00e1ch, nh\u1eadu nh\u1eb9t. Anh v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 trong men say, m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n xa c\u00e1ch v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n anh c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t n\u1eef m\u00f4i gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p. Anh d\u1eabn c\u00f4 ta \u0111i \u0103n \u1edf nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng, r\u1ed3i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1ch s\u1ea1n sang tr\u1ecdng. T\u00f4i suy s\u1ee5p, r\u1ed3i lao v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 qu\u00ean \u0111i n\u1ed7i \u0111au nh\u01b0ng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u1ea5y c\u1ee9 \u00e1m \u1ea3nh. C\u00f3 l\u00fac t\u00f4i b\u1ecf b\u00ea b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i, \u0111\u00eam n\u00e0o c\u0169ng tr\u1eb1n tr\u1ecdc. T\u00f4i khuy\u00ean anh d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i v\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi anh n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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T\u00ecnh c\u1edd, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2u n\u00f3i: “Kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ec1n m\u1edbi ch\u1ebft, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1eddi v\u1eabn t\u01b0\u01a1i nh\u01b0 hoa” n\u00ean d\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i. T\u00f4i ch\u0103m ch\u00fat l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, d\u1eabn c\u00e1c con \u0111i du l\u1ecbch, t\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u1edfng cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn. D\u00f9 v\u1eady, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 qu\u00ean. T\u00f4i t\u1eebng g\u1eb7p c\u00f4 g\u00e1i kia. C\u00f4 ta t\u1ef1 tin, thao thao n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i, khuy\u00ean t\u00f4i n\u00ean ly h\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec3 “m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n”. T\u00f4i ch\u1ee3t nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i t\u00ecm lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01a1n ly h\u00f4n. Khi bi\u1ebft chuy\u1ec7n, ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd xu\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc, r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i \u0111e d\u1ecda, g\u00e2y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, \u0111\u01b0a ra b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng, \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ec1n nu\u00f4i hai con, anh c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m chu c\u1ea5p v\u00e0 th\u0103m nom. Ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i c\u0103n nh\u00e0 c\u0169 cho m\u1eb9 con t\u00f4i. C\u00e1c con \u0111\u1ee7 hi\u1ec3u chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n an \u1ee7i t\u00f4i. Sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng, chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t c\u0103n chung c\u01b0 m\u1edbi, thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng gian s\u1ed1ng, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ba m\u1eb9 con. T\u00f4i d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n cho con, cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh th\u00edch. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd v\u00ec t\u00f4i tr\u1ebb trung v\u00e0 y\u00eau \u0111\u1eddi h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc. T\u00f4i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ch\u00e1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng t\u1ed1t, t\u00f4i c\u1eb7p v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p \u0103n n\u00f3i b\u1ed7 b\u00e3<\/a><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i lu\u1ed9m thu\u1ed9m, \u0103n n\u00f3i b\u1ed7 b\u00e3, kh\u00e1c h\u1eb3n ch\u1ed3ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 thu h\u00fat t\u00f4i, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u00e9n l\u00fat m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i.<\/a>  236<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f2n ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn th\u0103m con, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n v\u1ebb ch\u1ec9n chu nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc. T\u00f4i nghe n\u00f3i anh \u0111ang \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh ti\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe kh\u00e1c. Anh c\u00f3 \u00fd mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t, h\u00e0n g\u1eafn v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng trong l\u00f2ng v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn anh. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, mong \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n chia s\u1ebb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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“L\u00fac vui v\u1ebb anh \u1edf b\u00ean ai, l\u00fac \u1ed1m \u0111au anh l\u1ea1i nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ee3”. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1eaft gi\u00e1 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. Theo b\u1ea1n, s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 bao dung \u0111\u00e1ng qu\u00fd hay l\u00e0 m\u1ea7m m\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu l\u00f2ng? H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn chia s\u1ebb c\u00f9ng t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Wife says she still cries every night missing her ex-lover who is a deputy director<\/a><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

V\u1ee3 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i t\u1eeb khi c\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng, \u0111\u00eam n\u00e0o c\u0169ng kh\u00f3c, ngh\u0129 v\u00ec sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u0169 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi xa l\u1ea1.<\/a>  123<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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V\u1ee3 t\u00f4i b\u1ecf \u0111i v\u00ec em ch\u1ed3ng bi\u1ebfn c\u0103n h\u1ed9 chung c\u01b0 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u00e0nh homestay<\/a><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

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Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a em \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i, \u0111\u1eb7t laptop l\u00ean b\u00e0n \u0103n, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ebfn khuya r\u1ed3i \u0111i ng\u1ee7.<\/a>  217<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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After an illness, I broke up with my cold-hearted husband and stopped talking to my biological mother<\/a>  81<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Wife says she still cries every night missing her ex-lover who is a deputy director <\/a> 123<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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I was too stubborn in demanding a formal status, so she cut off all contact <\/a> 67<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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